Stuart Goldsmith a how to prioritize your needs to make a success
of your life and live your dream
Five Steps to Turbo Charge Your Dreams by Stuart
1. Dream of a brighter tomorrow. Your yearning power
is more important than your earning power.
2. Be rational. Mysticism is your mortal enemy. There
are obvious, logical steps between here and your dreams. Write them
down in bite-sized chunks and follow them like a route map.
3. Act. All is dust without action. Action is the
4. Be disciplined. Life is tough. Fight. Others want
you to fail. Ignore them. The world is against you - go your own
way. People will spout rubbish - ignore it.
5. Start today. Procrastination is the thief of time.
Winners start right now. Losers chatter to themselves that they
will start 'one day real soon.' It never happens.
Hierarchy of Needs
All dreams are driven by your needs. This might be
your need for approval, recognition, status, safety, love, food,
shelter - or any one of a hundred different needs.
So when thinking about your dreams, I want you to
remember this concept called the hierarchy of needs - you might
have come across this before. It goes like this.
When life is a desperate struggle, we are overwhelmingly
consumed with the desire for food. Every waking moment is spent
in pursuit of nourishment. Nothing else matters. We scrabble the
earth from dawn until dusk with little on our mind apart from the
thrill of discovering another root or berry. There is little time
for philosophy or self fulfillment. We work, we sleep, we eat -
if we're lucky.
Food is the first need, assuming we have basics such
as air and water. If, due to man's ingenuity, we manage to crack
the food supply problem, our next need becomes shelter and warmth
- somewhere cozy to lay our heads at night. If we achieve all of
these things, the next thing we seek is love and belongingness.
And after that? Recognition, self-esteem and the esteem
of our peers.
This is a very important realization for you. It is
very likely that you already have air, water, sufficient food, a
roof over your head, a modest amount of money, and a certain amount
of love and friendship. Therefore your dreams will almost certainly
reflect your next need on the list which is your desire for recognition,
self-esteem, admiration, respect, fame, achievement, etc.
If you want ten million dollars, then this is almost
certainly because you want to be somebody and have the respect and
admiration of society, not because you need a larger roof over your
head or extra food.
As an interesting aside, the modern phenomenon of
the serial killer coincides exactly with a period when, for the
first time in history, most people have adequate food, shelter and
Next in the hierarchy of needs comes love, which we
will assume is thwarted for some reason.
So the next higher need is recognition. Or, in the
case of the criminal, notoriety. Most serial killers when caught
and questioned, mentioned that one motivating factor was the desire
to be somebody - a rare motive in crimes from previous centuries.
Paul John Knowles who embarked upon a random killing
spree in 1972, claiming the lives of at least 24 victims, declared
himself to be “the only successful member of my family” and positively
basked in the media attention after his arrest. He was subsequently
shot dead by an FBI agent whilst trying to grab a gun after a court
Recognizing your desire for adulation, fame, infamy
- call it what you will - helps to clear your head and focus your
mind more firmly on your goals. It can also help you to detect erroneous
or incorrect dreams. Yes, there are such things as incorrect dreams.
I would define this as a dream which is an overly complex or grandiose
strategy for filling a simple need, when a far simpler (and more
achievable) strategy might suffice.
Achieving a net worth of ten million dollars is actually
a difficult task and one which will exercise you for the next ten
or twenty years. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this, if
it is what you really desire. But if this dream is being driven
by a craving for recognition, admiration or respect then there may
be an easier way of satisfying your desires without going through
the twenty years of grief required to amass ten million.
Perhaps you can get the recognition you crave in some
other simpler way by writing a book, appearing on television, being
a star in your local community or any one of a hundred easier ways.
It's just something for you to think about.
Once you understand that it is our need for recognition,
not money, which drives most people in an affluent Western society,
you will be less puzzled by the things that are going on around
The rise in crime and delinquency is not caused by
poverty, it is caused by tens of thousands of petty crooks wanting
to ‘be somebody,’ or ‘teach society a lesson’ or to 'get respect'
- they are, if you like, ego crimes not fiscal crimes.
A century ago most crime was survival crime. People
stole to eat. Vandalism was almost unknown. A vandal leaves his
or her mark on the furniture of society - it is a statement of ego.
The dramatic rise in divorce rate has little to do
with people being worse husbands or wives these days, compared with
the past. If anything, they are a lot better. It is driven by people's
desire for recognition. They want to be appreciated. They are not
prepared to suffer the drudgery of marriage without reward.
A century ago this would have been unthinkable. You
got on with it because the survival of your family was at stake.
Your precious thoughts of wanting appreciation were inconsequential
in the scrabble for plain survival.
Look at advertising on television. Most products are
sold on the basis of raising your self-esteem, not on the benefits
of the product. Most adverts these days have the hidden message
So learn to look at your dreams with a critical eye.
Ask yourself what the underlying need is behind the dream and then
ask yourself if this is the only way you can achieve it.
Don't get fixated on the actual method or strategy
of getting the need met; often there are many different ways of
achieving satisfaction. First work out what the actual need is,
and then plan the simplest, most realistic strategy for meeting
Many people struggle throughout their lives to make
big money only to find that when they have got it, they still feel
hollow and empty. This is because the money was just a symbol for
the underlying need - which still hasn't been met.
A classic case would be a woman who sacrifices everything
to reach the top of her profession and make a lot of money, only
to realize that she has spent twenty years trying to gain her father's
approval and love and this was the way she thought she could get
it! What a hard route - and it didn't work! If only she had recognized
the underlying need (for approval and love) and considered some
alternative strategies, any one of which could have been far easier
than the struggle she put herself through.
© Stuart Goldsmith 2003
action guide by Stuart Goldsmith "Double Your Way To A Million"
Stuart shows how you can change nothing into $1,310,720 without
any capital, simply using your wit, imagination and your natural
Goldsmith's 'Seven Secrets of the Millionaire's strips
away the wealth creation lies you've been spoon fed by "self-help"
con-artists and "business opportunity" fraudsters
Goldsmith's Classic best selling book 'The Midas Method'
(over 100,000 copies sold), where he shows you how to give up your
day job and make a million dollars instead.
There is an elite and rather secretive group which
share three things in common:
1. They all want to be extremely wealthy.
2. They all want to be completely free from external controls.
3. They all desire real power and freedom in their lives.
It's chaired by Stuart Goldsmith and called the 'Inner Circle',
and memebership is limited (in fact I will have to pull this link
Goldsmith private Inner Circle group ... read more
Authors Ted Nicholas & Stuart Goldsmith
have written what is arguably the most important course on succeeding
in your own profitable mail order business.
They have both coined millions out of their own mail order ventures,
and there's absolutely no reason you couldn't earn a good few green
Not only will this course give you an in-depth training in the art
of mail order, you can also apply those same principles to selling
stuff on the Net.
Goldsmith and Ted Nicholas - The Golden Mailbox
Articles by Stuart Goldsmith
Goldsmith on self-discipline if you want to be a success.
The Rot Starts Early © 2003 Stuart Goldsmith
that you deserve to be wealthy'
by Stuart Goldsmith
Make Serious Money, You Must Know What You Want and Have a Plan
for Achieving it." Goal setting plan by Stuart Goldsmith
Goldsmith takes you through some essential values you need
to become wealthy
has nothing to do with creating wealth
- Stuart Goldsmith guides you to taking the right actions to creating
your own wealth
first steps to financial freedom. Stuart Goldsmith shows
you how to go about ensuring a sound financial future in his article
'The Future You'.
to use your body language to develop your success and power
... Stuart Goldsmith shows you how in 'How to Talk & Win'
to be a millionaire? Want to be successful? - Well then
it's time to start claiming responsibility for your life now and
for tomorrow ... "You Must Take Action" Article by Stuart
Live your Dream
Stuart Goldsmith talks about the power of your dreams - and that
the only real way to live your life ... is to live your dream.
approval required by Stuart Goldsmith - Live your dream